August 20,2006
1. 2nd Ward of Coshocton
2. Karen Carpenter’s Husband, Rick & Family
3. Homer Mencer – Needs prayer for his leg used for the heart surgery
4. Joyce Crozier – had her baby (no details at this time)
Let’s Welcome This Morning’s Guest
Speaker, Dan Gross, his wife, Melissa, with a
handshake and hug!!
There will be no Sunday evening services during
August for various reasons.
Mark Your Calendars: Baptism
Service at Tony & Connie William’s house
next Sunday, August 27, after morning service. We
will gather at their house for some food &
fellowship. If your last name begins with A – J
please bring a main entrée dish. If your last name
begins with K – T please bring a salad or
dessert dish. If your last name begins with the
letter U – Z you may choose whatever
you’d like to bring. (You are all welcome to
bring any additional item you’d like. If we
follow this format we should get a nice variety.)
After everyone is done we will have a baptism service
in the swimming pool. Please let Robin (or Pastor)
know if you want to be baptized. Thanks.
FYI:
There are
Voice of the Martyrs Monthly Magazines on our Media
Display rack for anyone interested. These magazines
have great stories about the present day persecuted
church in various parts of our world and many times
speak of modern day martyrs. These stories are very
humbling and inspiring. You may have the publication.
I hesitate to throw them away when someone might be
blessed by the reading. If I don’t see any
interest, I will remove them from the Display and
throw them away. Just don’t want to do it if
there is an interested soul somewhere.
Attention to those of you who have access to a
computer:
If you go
to the web site at
www.letssaythanks.com you
can pick out a thank you card and the Xerox
Corporation will print it and it will be sent to a
soldier that is currently serving in Iraq. You can't
pick out who gets it, but it will go to some member
of the armed services. It is FREE and it only takes a
second. Wouldn't it be wonderful if our military
received a bunch of these? C'mon...DO IT!!
Thank
You: Pastor
gives his heartfelt thanks for all the cards, calls,
visits, flowers, groceries, meals, sitting with him
or making the grocery runs, and any other way not
mentioned that you helped. (The bed has been a
priceless help!!!) He cherishes you and treasures his
sheep within the depths of his heart. May the Lord
bless you and keep you and cause His face to shine
upon you. May His light shine within your heart as
yours has shined within that of your pastors!
There
will be no Junior Church this morning for
Robin’s class.
VBS has come and gone. Please show your appreciation
this morning after the program is over, for a job
well done. This church has some of the most awesome
people attending that there ever was, is, or could
be. Thank you all!
The Task of Discipline: It’s not easy, but
someone needs to do it
By Susan Lansdown
Discipline is a difficult issue for parents. Children
need loving, firm direction which requires
consistent, determined guidance from parents. The
Bible gives us a clear picture of God’s view of
discipline. ‘The Lord disciplines those he
loves, and he punishes everyone he accepts as a
son” (Hebrews 12:6) Proverbs 22:6 makes a
promise to parents faithful in their duties:
“Train up a child in the way he should go, and
when he is old, he will not depart from it”.
Discipline is “training toward certain
behaviors.” A preteen moves between immaturity
and maturity. This calls for firm, consistent
parental guidance and lessons in being responsible.
Discipline is a large part of this process.
Discipline provides the boundaries children need.
Parents decide what are acceptable behaviors and
attitudes and what the penalties for disobedience
will be. Consistency is critical in dealing with your
child. When you promise that certain behaviors will
bring definite consequences, it is important to keep
your word. Threats of punishment with no follow-up
damage your credibility with your child. Threats may
provide short-term results, but this tactic
encourages children to learn manipulation and creates
an insecure environment where consequences are
regarded with uncertainty. Both parents should be
involved in the discipline process. Talk with your
spouse about situations and determine discipline
jointly. A united front is good. It promotes family
harmony. Don’t wait for discipline to become a
problem. Discuss expectations with your child. Use
clear, specific language. Ask your child to repeat
the information for clarification. Each time new
expectations arise, repeat the process. Discussing
issues before they are problems also gives children
and parents the opportunity to explore discipline in
a positive setting. Even with specific discussion and
good communication, situations needing disciplinary
action will occur. Handle episodes of disobedience
deliberately and calmly. If the situation has been
discussed previously, follow through with the
promised consequence. Each child is unique. When
disciplinary incidents occur, one child may need only
to be talked to while another may need stronger
responses. Alternative disciplinary measures include
taking away privileges or giving extra chores around
the home. Whatever you decide is most effective with
your child, be sure to discuss with him the biblical
view of disobedience and the long term results of sin
with him. Have prayer about i9t together. God makes
clear in His Wird that He loves the sinner and hates
the sin. Make this distinction certain. A child may
mistake discipline for personal dislike unless what
he does is clearly separated from who he is. You
cannot prevent your child from ever needing
correction. Discipline is a lifetime process. What
you can give your child is a secure, consistent
environment in which he can begin developing into a
responsible, disciplined individual.