On Being Friendly
29/10/06 15:40
I have always been a firm believer in the
friendliness of Jesus. Now, you may think that that
thought isn’t the most profound thing that was
ever said, but you know, I wonder just how many
people think about Jesus being friendly. We know with
confidence that He loved those He came into contact
with and He was fair and compassionate. But not too
many people think about Him as just being a friendly
guy. We like to think of Jesus as one who was always
deep in thought. One who chose His words carefully,
as though He was constantly in “teacher
mode.” Sure He was “a man of sorrows and
acquainted with grief,” but He was also filled
with a joy unspeakable and full of glory. He knew
what Solomon had said nine centuries before; that a
man who has friends must show himself friendly.
Pr.18:24 KJV I think that Jesus would have been a
great Friend –a Friend who stuck closer than a
brother. In the Gospel of John, Jesus and his
disciples were invited to a wedding in the town of
Cana. It was here that Jesus performed His first
miracle at the request of Mary, His mother. He
hadn’t healed the sick, He hadn’t raised
the dead, He hadn’t performed any miracle
whatsoever that would cause the bridegroom to invited
Him. What I mean is this. Jesus was followed by the
multitudes because He had met their needs and because
they could see the miracles that Jesus performed.
People wanted to be around Jesus because He was great
and powerful. But this couldn’t be so with the
invitation to the wedding because He hadn’t
performed any miracles yet. Do you see what I mean?
So, I wonder why Jesus was invited –perhaps
simply because He was a friendly person and probably
nice to be around. Cana was just a few miles north of
Nazareth during the time Jesus grew up. Maybe the
family of the bride and bridegroom knew Jesus’
family. Maybe they knew Jesus and just liked Him for
who He was and not for anything that He could do for
them… now there’s a thought!
Wouldn’t it be nice to have people want to be
around you just because they thought you were neat?
That’s one of the advantages of being poor, you
know that those who want to be around you
aren’t just after your money! Someone once said
that Christians are the only Bible that some people
will ever read. St. Paul said that Christians were
living epistles (letters) read and known by all men.
He goes on to say that our lives declare that we are
living letters of Christ, written not with ink but by
the Spirit of God. So, what do you show the world
about Jesus? Is Jesus friendly in the eyes of them
that know you? Oftentimes, being friendly is one of
the greatest evangelical tools God has ever given us.
And guess what? No one is ever poor who has a lot of
friends!
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